Quite a few interesting points came up in the comments from last weeks “Thinking with the Smaller Head” newsletter that I wrote and I was compelled to take the conversation even deeper.
My original assertion (see the blog immediately preceding this one) was that, when approaching woman, it is much better to operate from the kind of awareness arising from a larger context and higher purpose. The larger head can do this whereas the smaller head doesn’t have the capacity. And yet, there are even deeper waters to plumb…the Truth.
Based on a question that Vesco asked, “what would happen if we threw out both heads,” I wrote a comment on Facebook that I thought was worth posting again here below:
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From Oct 17th:
I think Vesco is exclaiming that both heads are potential trouble makers if left to run the penis. This compelled me to take this a little deeper and as such I see that when Truth is the driver of the penis, than both the larger and smaller heads will naturally and easily fall into place in support of, or in allegiance to, the Truth.
Man’s bigger head, in close communication with his gut, is important for setting direction, establishing his terms as a Man and identifying vision and higher purpose. Once those are aligned and integrated with the Truth that resides in his gut, the bigger head can rest….all it then needs to do is important work like keep us from playing in traffic or playing with sharp instruments or explosives!
When man is only operating from his bigger head, he risks driving his penis from ego and agenda. Additionally, he is likely very disconnected from his body as he spends way too much time up there impotently thrashing about searching for new techniques and trying to figure out all the multiple nuances from answered questions. In reality, he just needs to drop into his body where he will find the answers for himself.
By contrast, when man is operating from his Truth, he has figured out that living a life as an honorable and masculine man yields potential far greater than he can ever imagine for not only himself, but for all those around him. There then exists a definite perceptible calm… a stillness…..and in that stillness, exists the possibility to SEE woman and hold the space that Dawn Cartwright describes: “…this (the space of seeing and truth) elevates both man and woman.”
There is an old expression, often used to describe a man caught philandering, that “he was thinking with his penis.” An awakened man is not driven by his penis. There is just a grounded simple understanding contributing to the stillness where the smaller head becomes the heart driven conscious penis he wields to penetrate woman with devotion and reverence.
Woman is calling to man. The higher good is served when the man operating from Truth is the one who shows up for woman. More men like this can make a difference.
We all want the best of man to show up for the best of woman and vice versa. Conversations like this are necessary to keep this fire burning and draw others to it for strength and clarity.