I am posting a letter here, by permission, that I received from a lovely woman who passionately and eloquently writes of a recent loving adventure she shared with Larry, one of the men who regularly attends my weekly Men’s Tantra Circle.
“Together we discovered new heights, new pleasures and never grew weary of the journey. We simply could not get enough of each other. This was the most romantic experience of my life but also the most sexually fulfilling. I have never wanted someone more nor felt my partner want me in the same way that I wanted him.”
Sound like the kind of thing you would like your woman to say about an experience with you?
Read on for the rest of the story…
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Tracy’s Story
To reconnect again after 33 years makes for an amazing story, especially given the fact that Larry and I were always just friendly acquaintances with a few common threads of having grown up in the same town, attended the same temple and high school. Reunited by Facebook in August, who would have predicted an incredibly romantic weekend together in Scottsdale to be the outcome?
Larry told me about his Men’s Group about a month ago with some trepidation. Not trepidation on his part of belonging to the group but in sharing this concept with me and wondering if I would be open to this idea. I’m sure a big part of it was how would an independent woman on the East coast react to this? But after I read Martin’s website and understood the philosophy behind it more clearly I was thrilled that this man that I was sharing this growing connection with was so willing to search within himself to ultimately become a better man and a better partner. It solidified for me that Larry was a man worth making my own investment in, even with our geographic differences.
As the day of our trip finally approached I realized that this had been a very different courtship for me. At this juncture we had spent countless hours on the telephone sharing secrets, life experiences, joys, and sorrows and simply getting to truly know each other. I knew Larry better before we ever met again than any man I have ever been in a relationship with and we still hadn’t truly met again.
For me the day of our meeting finally dawned with an incredibly long plane ride to Phoenix. When the plane landed, late of course, I could hardly breathe. I texted Larry from the Ladies room to be certain he was already there and his simple response was, “duhhhh!” To which I responded that I was incredibly nervous and once again a very Larry answer of, “breathe TK!”
Upon exiting the gate area he was waiting right there and immediately recognized me. We hugged, all still a bit awkward and went on to get my bags. Another hug, exchanges of “how do I look” and off to the rental car counter.
Finally in our car and ready to begin the adventure I asked him to kiss me. Promising but I did not feel the connection I expected yet.
The ride was smooth and relaxed and we got involved in the process of finding our destination. Once we arrived at check in while I was busily involved in the process Larry came up behind me, pressed the length of his body against mine leaning against the front desk and hugged me from behind. That was when the current went off. That was my defining moment that this connection was going to extend to the physical with the most simple of efforts.
Experiences of intimacy are difficult to write about but in an effort to support Larry’s work in your group I must share. At 51, I consider myself a woman of experience, but I have never before found this kind of joy of connections between two people. From that first touch in the hotel lobby to the last bittersweet kiss at the airport it was perfect. Larry took his time to listen to my signals, to look in my eyes to wait for my reaction to his touch. Together we discovered new heights, new pleasures and never grew weary of the journey. Constantly ready to try something new, talk, explain, teach, share, laugh, and cry. We simply could not get enough of each other. This was the most romantic experience of my life but also the most sexually fulfilling. I was respected, cared for, cradled, embraced and touched to my inner core. I have never wanted someone more nor felt my partner want me in the same way that I wanted him. I am spoiled, satiated and renewed. Most importantly, time stood still.
Our last night in Phoenix, we finally left our own little womb and joined one of my best friends and her husband for dinner at their home. It was hard to escape our own space to do this but they welcomed Larry and absolutely loved him. As we were leaving I pointed out a beautiful vase of tiger lilies on the dining room table to Larry and told him I now understood about Martin’s reference to the flower. I let Larry know that I had truly been worshipped to the very core of my flower.
I am not sure that the word thank you is enough to say. But thank you for sharing your lessons with Larry and now with me. I have found a man who completes me and know what true fulfillment can be. We look forward to meeting again and continuing this journey together.
December 12, 2010
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Can you really afford to wait another moment before you tap into these tools?
It’s all in the being Present, in the being grounded and in creating a clear masculine space….just like Larry was holding for Tracy.
The Tantric techniques and the Core Masculine Principles, that I teach each week in the Men’s Tantra Circle, are the building blocks for creating and living a life of ease, to move authentically in the world and experience the magnificence of Woman.
I invite your feedback…thank you.